Daily Hope and Inspiration from Pastor Mark

Sunday, October 31, 2010

TRUST IN GOD'S PLAN FOR YOUR LIFE AND ALLOW HIM TO MAKE YOUR PATHS STRAIGHT.

Trust can be difficult. There have been times in my life when I put my trust in someone or something and was completely let down. I have learned to value people, places, and things for whom and what they represent at that moment. This prevents me from setting expectations that may or may not be met in the future. People are human, that means we are not perfect.
But while people will fail you, God will never let you down.
God has a master plan for each one of us… a blueprint for every believer... a wonderful will for your life as well as mine. And whether you are a butcher, a baker, or a candlestick maker, God has a purpose for your life.
I know for certain that God is in control and that we're not just aimlessly wandering and meandering through life, because the Bible affirms that over and over again.
The Lord only asks that you trust in Him to know what's best for you... to not lean on your own understanding of how things should be.
When you begin trust in God for everything, He will do amazing things in your life! He has in mine and continues to surprise and bless me and my family.


“Trust in the LORD with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make straight your paths.” Proverbs 3:5-6


“And acceptance is the answer to all my problems today. When I am disturbed, it is because I find some person, place, thing or situation -- some fact of my life -- unacceptable to me, and I can find no serenity until I accept that person, place, thing or situation as being exactly the way it is supposed to be at this moment.
Nothing, absolutely nothing happens in God's world by mistake. Until I could accept my alcoholism, I could not stay sober; unless I accept life completely on life's terms, I cannot be happy. I need to concentrate not so much on what needs to be changed in the world as on what needs to be changed in me and in my attitudes.”  Big Book Page 449 ( or pg 417 in new edition)


 “When we sincerely took such a position, all sorts of remarkable things followed. We had a new Employer. Being all powerful, He provided what we needed, if we kept close to Him and performed His work well. Established on such a footing we became less and less interested in ourselves, our little plans and designs. More and more we became interested in seeing what we could contribute to life. As we felt new power flow in, as we enjoyed peace of mind, as we discovered we could face life successfully, as we became conscious of His presence, we began to lose our fear of today, tomorrow or the hereafter. We were reborn.
We were now at Step Three. Many of us said to our Maker, as we understood Him: "God, I offer myself to Thee-to build with me and to do with me as Thou wilt. Relieve me of the bondage of self, that I may better do Thy will. Take away my difficulties, that victory over them may bear witness to those I would help of Thy Power, Thy Love, and Thy Way of life. May I do Thy will always!" We thought well before taking this step making sure we were ready; that we could at last abandon ourselves utterly to Him.” Big Book page 63


Tuesday, October 26, 2010

FORGIVENESS

If you forgive those who sin against you, your heavenly Father will forgive you. But if you refuse to forgive others, you Father will not forgive your sins. Matthew 6:14-15
The Importance of Forgiveness
Forgiveness is something all of us want to receive but most of us hesitate to give. Jesus makes it clear, however, that we can't have it without giving it. If you forgive those who sin against you, your heavenly Father will forgive you. But if you refuse to forgive others, your Father will not forgive your sins (Matthew 6:14-15). These words allow no room for doubt or discussion. Forgiveness flows two ways. We cannot separate receiving forgiveness from extending forgiveness.
Forgiveness is at the core of emotional well-being. It is fair to say that unforgiving people are emotionally sick. Their bitterness is a disease of the spirit, and it is inevitable that the unforgiving person eventually will experience physical illness as well. Anger causes surges of adrenaline and secretes other powerful chemicals that attack the body. The stress we carry when we refuse to give or receive forgiveness affects our hearts, minds, and bodies. To make matters worse, both rage and negativity contribute to obsessive behaviors like overeating, workaholism, overspending, and addictions to (PUT YOURS HERE!). We cannot rid ourselves of emotional pain and its side effects unless we are willing to forgive.
Unresolved anger keeps us from moving forward because it locks us frozen on the exact moment when a particular offense occurred. Fear of further injury and fear of risking new relationships and experiences, makes us unwilling to move to new levels of relationship, not only with those who have hurt us but with anyone who represents a similar threat.
Think about it, if we allow unforgiveness to continue, we are likely to experience negativity, bitterness, or both. Yet more important than any of these concerns is the most serious consideration of all—the spiritual consequence of unforgiveness: alienation from God.
Forgiveness cannot begin until we admit our own failures. If we cannot do that much, we can neither give nor receive forgiveness. We cannot receive forgiveness without acknowledging our need for it, and we cannot extend forgiveness without admitting that because of our own imperfect condition we have no right to withhold forgiveness from anyone else. For Christians, forgiveness is nonnegotiable; it is the very essence of our faith.
Please check your own experience. Look in the mirror to see what is inside of you that is holding you back and  then ask God to help you to be willing to forgive. 
Remember...Ya gotta give to get!

Sunday, October 24, 2010

the 12 Steps and their Biblical Roots

This week I would like to share with you from Dick B. who discusses the 12 steps and their Biblical roots.

                                    http://www.dickb.com/AAbasicideas.shtml
Alcoholics Anonymous History
AA Basics: A StudyBasic Ideas from the Good Book That Dr. Bob Considered "Absolutely Essential"
By Dick B.
A Study of Basics in Jesus’s Sermon on the Mount, the Book of James, and 1 Corinthians 13 that appear to be directly related to the essentials in A.A.’s spiritual program of recovery developed in Akron between 1935 and 1938
 Both of A.A.’s founders said that the Sermon on the Mount – (found in Matthew 5, 6, and 7) – contained the underlying philosophy of A.A. Moreover, Dr. Bob stated many times that A.A.’s basic ideas came from their study of the Bible and that the Sermon on the Mount, the Book of James, and 1 Corinthians 13 were "absolutely essential" to the early A.A. spiritual program of recovery.
In the years since A.A.’s founding in 1935, there have been endless attempts to compare A.A.’s Twelve Steps with any number of verses in the Bible—often verses that were neither mentioned nor studied by the Pioneer AAs. Yet, while he said he did not write the 12 Steps and had nothing to do with writing them, Dr. Bob said the basic ideas came from the Bible. And again and again, Dr. Bob mentioned James, Corinthians, and the Sermon as containing the heart of the A.A. program. Despite these statements, I have seen no study of the principles or basic ideas in the three mentioned segments of the Bible that attempts to correlate them with the Twelve Steps themselves.
For me, as one who has poured over A.A. history dozens of times in the past fourteen years, who has studied and practiced the Twelve Steps, and who has taught the Big Book Step instructions to at least 100 men, the parallels with the Big Book fairly leap from the Bible to the Big Book. I can’t say that the following verses were ever quoted in one place by either founder in connection with all the Steps; but I can say that the verses were quoted many many times by those pioneers and later AAs who mentioned the Bible in connection with the Steps and, with Dr. Bob, declared the verses to be "absolutely essential" to the pioneer A.A. program.
I believe you can get the real Biblical flavor of the Twelve Steps as they originally flowed from the Bible-studying The Twelve Steps and the Correlative Bible Verses from James, Corinthians, and Jesus’s Sermon on the Mount
Step One – Temptation (the problem); Defeat (the cry for help);  Resistence (the solution); and Abstinence (the "must")
From the Book of James:
James 1:12-16:
          "Blessed is a man who perseveres under trial; for once he has been approved, he will receive the crown of life which the Lord has promised to those who love Him. Let no one say when he is tempted, ‘I am being tempted by God’; for God cannot be tempted by evil, and He Himself does not tempt anyone. But each one is tempted when he is carried away and enticed by his own lust. Then when lust has conceived, it gives birth to sin; and when sin is accomplished, it brings forth death. Do not be deceived, my beloved brethren."
James 4:7-8:
          "Submit therefore to God. Resist the devil and he will flee from you. Draw near to God and He will draw near to you. Cleanse your hands, you sinners; and purify your hearts, you double-minded."

[See also 1 Peter 5:8-10: "Be of sober spirit, be on the alert. Your adversary, the        devil, prowls around like a roaring lion, seeking someone to devour. But resist him, firm in your faith, knowing that the same  experiences of suffering are being     accomplished by your brethren who are in the world. After you have suffered for a little while, the God of all grace, who called you to His eternal glory in Christ, will Himself perfect, confirm, strengthen and establish you"]
  • An Early A.A. Description of Defeat by Bill Wilson:
          "No words can tell of the loneliness and despair I found in that bitter morass of         self-pity. Quicksand stretched around me in all directions. I had met my match. I         had been overwhelmed. Alcohol was my master. Trembling, I stepped from the         hospital a broken man. Fear sobered me for a bit. Then came the insidious         insanity of that first drink, and on Armistice Day 1934, I was off again" (Big Book, 1st ed., p.17)

Step Two – Believing in, asking of, and receiving from, our Creator: His Help and Healing!
James 1:5-8:
          "But if any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of God, who gives to all generously and without reproach, and it will be given to him. But he must ask in faith without any doubting, for the one who doubts, is like the surf of the sea, driven and tossed by the wind. For that man ought not to expect that he will receive anything from the Lord, being a double-minded man, unstable in all his ways."

James 5:14-16:
          "Is any among you sick? Then he must call for the elders of the church and they are to pray over him, anointing him with oil in the name of the Lord; and the   prayer offered in faith will restore the one who is sick, and the Lord will raise him up, and if he has committed sins, they will be forgiven him. Therefore, confess your sins one to another, and pray for one another, so that you may be healed. The effective prayer of a righteous man can accomplish much."

Matthew 7:7-8, 11 – (a part of the Sermon on the Mount):
          "Ask, and it will be given to you; seek, and you will find; knock, and it will be opened to you. For everyone who asks receives, and he who seeks finds, and to him who knocks it will be opened. . . . If you   then, being evil, know how to give    good gifts to your children, how much more will your Father who is in heaven give what is good to those who ask Him!"

  • Bill Wilson (who began as a self-described conservative atheist) describing his willingness to believe and his own "leap of faith."
          "Upon a foundation of complete willingness I might build what I saw in my friend [Bill’s friend Ebby Thacher, glowingly sober, ‘made the point blank declaration to Bill that God had done for him what he could not do for himself.’ His human will had failed. Doctors had        pronounced him incurable. Society was about to lock him up. Like myself he had admitted complete defeat]. Would I have it? Of course I would! Thus was I convinced that God is concerned with us humans when we want him enough. At long last I saw, I felt, I believed. . . . How blind I had been" (Big Book, 1st ed., pp. 20-22).
        "I remember saying to myself, ‘I’ll do anything, anything at all. If there be a Great Physician, I’ll call on him.’ Then, with neither faith nor hope, I cried out, ‘If there be a God, let him show himself.’ The effect was instant, electric" (Bill W. My First Forty Years, Hazelden, p. 145).

Step Three – The Decision to Entrust your life to God’s care

Matthew 6:9-13 – (part of the Sermon on the Mount):
          "Pray, then, in this way: Our Father who is in heaven, Hallowed be Your name.  Your kingdom come. Your will be done, on earth as it is in heaven. Give us this day our daily bread and forgive us our debts, as we also have forgiven our debtors. And do not lead us into temptation, but deliver us from evil. For yours is the kingdom and the power and the glory forever. Amen."

Matthew 6:25, 31-33 – (part of the Sermon on the Mount):
          "For this reason I say to you, do not be worried about your life, as to what you will eat or what you will drink; nor for your body, as to what you will put on. Is not life more than food, and the body more than clothing? . . . . Do not worry then, saying, ‘What shall we eat?’ or ‘What shall we drink?’ or "What shall we wear for clothing?’ For the Gentiles eagerly seek all these things; for your heavenly Father knows that you need all these things. But seek first His kingdom and His righteousness, and all these things will be added to you."

James 4:10:
          "Humble yourselves in the presence of the Lord, and He will exalt you."

  • Bill Wilson’s "surrender" to God as Bill understood Him:
          "There I humbly offered myself to God, as I then understood Him, to do with me as He would. I placed myself unreservedly under His care and direction" (Big   Book, 1st ed., p 22).
        "There was utter confidence. I felt lifted up, as though the great clean wind of a mountain top blew through and through. God comes to most men gradually, but His impact on me was sudden and profound" (Big Book, 1st ed., pp. 23-24).
        "I’d been incapable of faith and so, God’s help. . . out of no faith, faith had suddenly appeared. No blind faith either, for it was fortified by the consciousness of the presence of God. Despair had turned into utter security. Darkness was banished by cosmic light. For sure I’d been born again" (Bill W. My First 40 Yearssupra, p. 147).
Step Four – Examining Yourselves for Sins Committed (Where didyou fall short?)
Matthew 6:43-48 (Love even your enemies – from the Sermon on the Mount):
          "You have heard that it was said, ‘You shall love your neighbor and hate your enemy.’ But I say to you, love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you, so that you may be sons of your Father who is in heaven; for He causes His sun to rise on the evil and the good, and sends rain on the righteous and the unrighteous. For if you love those who love you, what reward do you have? Do not even the tax collectors do the same? If you greet only your brothers, what more are you doing than others? Do not even the Gentiles do the same? Therefore you are to be perfect, as your heavenly Father is perfect."     
Matthew 7:3-5 (Look for your own faults first – from the Sermon on the Mount):
          "Why do you look at the speck that is in your brother’s eye, but do not notice the         log that is in your own eye? Or how can you say to your brother, ‘Let me take the speck out of your eye,’ and behold, the log is in your eye. You hypocrite, first take the log out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to take the speck out of your brother’s eye."
James 4:11-12 (God is the lawmaker and is the only judge of conduct, not you):
          "Do not speak against one another, brethren. He who speaks against a brother or judges his brother, speaks against the law and judges the law; but if you judge the law, you are not a doer of the law but a judge of it. There is only one Lawgiver and Judge, the One who is able to save and to destroy; but who are you who judge your neighbor?"
James 5:9-11 (Bear no grudges):
           "Do not complain, brethren, against one another, so that you yourselves may not be judged; behold, the Judge is standing right at the door. As an example, brethren, of suffering and patience, take the prophets who spoke in the name of the Lord. We count those blessed who endured. You have heard of the endurance of Job and have seen the outcome of the Lord’s dealings, that the Lord is full of     compassion and is merciful."

  • Description of the moral inventory taken by Earl T. with sponsor Dr. Bob:
          "Dr. Bob led me through all of these steps. At the moral inventory, he brought up several of my bad personality traits or character defects, such as selfishness, conceit, jealousy, carelessness, intolerance, ill-temper, sarcasm, and resentments.  We went over these at great length."(Big Book, 4th ed., p. 263).
Step Five – Admitting your sins to God, Yourself, and Another Person
James 5:16 (Getting your sins on the table and praying for forgiveness and healing):
          "Therefore, confess yours sins to one another, and pray for one another so that you may be healed. The effective prayer of a righteous man can accomplish much."

  • Wilson’s description of the Oxford Group/Book of James source of this step:
          "Agreeing with James in the New Testament, they thought people ought to confess their sins "one to another." Heavily emphasizing this wholesale sort of       personal housecleaning, they called the process ‘sharing.’ No only were things to be confessed; something was to be done about them" (Bill W. My First Forty Yearssupra, p. 127).
Step Six – Declaring your willingness to have God’s Help in abandoning sins you have confessed.
James 4:8 (Draw near to God, clean house, and purify your hearts):
          "Draw near to God and He will draw near to you. Cleanse your hands, you   sinners; and purify your hearts, you double minded."
James 2:14-17 (Accompany your faith with deeds-"faith without works is dead"):
          "What use is it, my brethren, if someone says he has faith but he has no works?  Can that faith save him? If a brother or sister is without clothing and in need of daily food, and one of you says to them, ‘Go in peace, be warmed and filled,’ and yet you do not give them what is necessary for their body, what use is that?  Even so faith, if it has no works, is dead, being by itself."
James 1:22-25 (To be blessed, when you "hear" God’s Word, "do it!"):
          "But prove yourselves doers of the word, and no merely hearers who delude themselves. For if anyone is a hearer of the word and not a doer, he is like a man who looks at his natural face in a mirror; for once he has looked at himself and gone away, he has immediately forgotten what kind of person he was. But one     who looks intently at the perfect law of liberty, and abides by it, not having become a forgetful hearer but an effectual doer, this man will be blessed in what he does."

  • Wilson’s parallel language about "conviction" of sins and having them purged:
        "Burn the idea into the consciousness of every man that he can get well regardless of anyone. The only condition is that he trust in God and clean house" (Big Book, 4th ed., p. 98).
        "Circumstances made him willing to believe. He humbly offered himself to His Maker-then he knew. Even so has God restored us to our right minds. To this man, the revelation was sudden. Some of us grow into it more slowly. But He has come to all who have honestly sought Him. When we drew near to Him, He disclosed Himself to us!" (Big Book, 4th ed., p. 57).
Step Seven – The conversion process of rebirth and establishment of a new relationship with God, as one of His children
Matthew 6:10 (It is God’s will that marks the starting point – from the Sermon on the Mount):
          "Your kingdom come. Your will be done, On earth as it is in heaven."
Matthew 7:21 (Jesus taught that only those who did the will of his Father would enter the kingdom of heaven  – from the Sermon on the Mount):
          "Not everyone who says to Me, ‘Lord, :Lord,’ will enter the kingdom of heaven, but he who does the will of My Father who is in heaven will enter."
1 Corinthians 13:1-2 (Faith and works must be accompanied by love):
          "If I speak with the tongues of men and of angels, but do not have love, I have become a noisy gong or a clanging cymbal. If I have the gift of prophecy, and know all mysteries and all knowledge; and if I have all faith, so as to remove mountains, but do not have love, I am nothing."
James 1:17-21 (By grace, souls are saved as a gift—when you receive God’s word of truth):
          "Every good thing given and every perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of lights, with whom there is no variation or shifting shadow. In the exercise of His will he brought us forth by the word of truth, so that we would be a kind of first fruits among His creatures. This you know, my beloved brethren. But everyone must be quick to hear, slow to speak, and slow to anger; for the anger of man does not achieve the righteousness of God. Therefore, putting aside all filthiness and all that remains of wickedness, in humility receive the word implanted, which is able to save your souls."
              [1 Peter 1:17-23 show the nature of a rebirth where you may become God’s child by believing what the word of God tells you about Christ’s paying for your sins in giving His life for you:
                    "If you address as Father the One who impartially judges according to each one’s work, conduct yourselves in fear during the time of your stay    on earth; knowing that you were not redeemed with the perishable things like silver or gold from your futile way of life inherited from your forefathers, but with the precious blood of a lamb unblemished and spotless, the blood of Christ. For He was foreknown before the foundation of the world, but has appeared in these last times for the sake of you who through Him are believers in God, who raised Him from the dead and gave Him glory so that your faith and hope are in God. Since you have in obedience to the truth purified your souls for a sincere love of the brethren, fervently love one another from the heart for you have been born again not of seed which is perishable but imperishable, that is, through the living and enduring word of God."

              Romans 10:6-14, 17 show exactly what to do: You hear the word; you confess and believe what it says; and you are "saved," made "righteous," and you are thereby born again—this birth being a birth that comes from receiving the spirit of God:
                    "But the righteousness based on faith speaks as follows: ‘Do not say in your heart, who will ascend to heaven’ (that is, to bring Christ down), or   ‘who will descend into the abyss?’ (that is, to bring Christ up from the dead). But what does it say" ‘The Word is near you, in your mouth and in your heart’-that is the word of faith which we are preaching. That if you confess with your mouth Jesus as Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised Him from the dead, you will be saved; for with the heart a person         believes,resulting in righteousness, and with the mouth he confesses, resulting in salvation. . . . for ‘whoever will call on the name of the Lord will be saved,; How then will they call on Him in whom they have not believed? How will they believe in Him whom they have not heard? And how will they hear without a preacher?. . . . So faith comes from hearing, and hearing by the word of Christ."]

  • Three early AAs attest to the conversion to Christ that was required of them:
          Clarence Snyder—who was sponsored by Dr. Bob, was one of the 40 pioneers, and got sober in February, 1938—described in detail the "surrender process" by         which he accepted Jesus Christ as his Lord and Saviour (Dick B., The Akron Genesis of Alcoholics Anonymous, pp. 193-196).
          Larry Bauer of Cleveland—who told the author that he was in and out of A.A.         between 1939 and 1944—said, in a telephone call and in correspondence of his         surrender, "They took me and that man upstairs to be a born again human being         and be God’s helper to alcoholics" (Dick B., The Akron Genesissupra, p. 196).
        Old-timer Ed Andy of Lorain, Ohio told the author in a telephone conversation: "They would not let you in unless you surrendered to Jesus Christ on your knees" (Dick B.,The Golden Text of A.A., p. 31).
Step Eight – Becoming willing to reconcile with those you’ve hurt and restore to them what you’ve wrongfully taken
Matthew 6:25-26 (Agree with your adversary quickly – from the Sermon on the Mount):
          "Make friends quickly with your opponent at law while you are with him on the way, so that your opponent may not hand you over to the judge, and the judge to the officer, and you be thrown into prison. Truly I say to you, you will not come out of there until you have paid up the last cent."
Step Nine – Then Make an Amend and Also Make Any Needed Restitution
Matthew  6:23-24 (Before you worship, remember your uncompleted amends, and make them – from the Sermon on the Mount):
          "Therefore if  you are presenting your offering at the altar, and there remember         that your brother has something against you, leave your offering there before the altar and go; first be reconciled to your  brother, and then come and present your offering."

  • This quotation from the Sermon on the Mount was so commonly used that it was included in A.A.’s own Grapevine Memorial pamphlet published at the time of Dr. Bob’s death.
Step Ten – Loving and serving God and your neighbor are a continuing obligation of the changed life [A.A.’s Big Book declares that Love and Tolerance are its Code]
Matthew 7:12 (The "Golden Rule" – Do unto others – from the Sermon on the Mount):
          "In everything, therefore, treat people the same way you want them to treat you, for this is the Law and the Prophets."
James 2:8-10 (The "Royal Law" – Love thy neighbor):
          "If, however, you are fulfilling the royal law according to the Scripture, ‘You         shall love your neighbor as yourself,’ you are doing well. But if you show         partiality, you are committing sin and are convicted by the law as transgressors. For whoever keeps the whole law and yet stumbles in one point, he has become guilty of all."
Matthew 5:43-44 (Love even your enemies, and pray for those who persecute you – from the Sermon on the Mount):
          "You have heard that it was said, ‘You shall love your neighbor and hate your enemy.’ But I say to you, love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you."
James 3:13-18 (The seed whose fruit is righteousness is sown in peace by those who make peace):
          "Who among you is wise and understanding? Let him show by his good behavior his deeds in the gentleness of wisdom. But if you have bitter jealousy and selfish ambition in your heart, do not be arrogant and so lie against the truth. This wisdom is not that which comes down from above, but is earthly, natural, demonic. For where jealousy and selfish ambition exist, there is disorder and every evil thing. But the wisdom from above is first pure, then peaceable, gentle, reasonably, full of mercy and good fruits, unwavering, without hypocrisy. And the seed whose fruit is righteousness is sown in peace by those who make peace."
1 Corinthians 13:2, 4-8 (I am nothing without love. Love is defined, and it never fails):
          "If I have the gift of prophecy, and know all mysteries and all knowledge; and if I         have faith, so as to remove mountains, but do not have love, I am nothing. . . .         Love is patient, love is kind and is not jealous; love does not brag and is not arrogant, does not act unbecomingly; it does not seek its own, is not provoked, does not take into account a wrong suffered, does not rejoice in unrighteousness, but rejoices in the truth; bears all things, believes all things, endures all things.      Love never fails. . . ."
Step Eleven – Prayer, Seeking God’s Guidance, Studying and Applying God’s Word, and Overcoming anxiety by turning first to God
James 5:13-16 (Pray and give thanks, praying to overcome suffering and sickness, and to receive forgiveness):
          "Is anyone among you suffering? Then he must pray. Is anyone cheerful? He is to sing praises. Is anyone among you sick? Then he must call for the elders of the church and they are to pray over him, anointing him with oil in the name of the     Lord; and the prayer offered in faith will restore the one who is sick, and the Lord   will raise him up, and if he has committed sins, they will be forgiven him. . . . The effective prayer of a righteous man can accomplish much."
James 2:21-24 (Believe Scripture, and also perfect that believing by obedient action):
        "Was not Abraham our father justified by works when he offered up Isaac his son         on the altar? You see that faith was working with his works, and as a result of the         works, faith was perfected; and the Scripture was fulfilled which says, ‘And Abraham believed God, and it was reckoned to him as righteousness,’ and he was called a friend of God. You see that a man is justified by works and not by faith alone."
James 1:22 (Thus be a doer of the Word, and not just a hearer):
          "But prove yourselves doers of the word, and not merely hearers who delude themselves."
James 1:5-6 (If you need wisdom, ask of God, believing, without doubting):
          "But if any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of God, who gives to all generously and without reproach, and it will be given to him. But he must ask in faith without any doubting, for the one who doubts is like the surf of  the sea, driven and tossed by the wind. For that man ought not to expect that he will receive anything from the Lord."
Matthew 6:24-25, 31-34 (God knows your needs, seek Him first and you will receive; so there is no need to worry – from the Sermon on the Mount):
          "No one can serve two masters; for either he will hate the one and love the other, or he will be devoted to one and despise the other. You cannot serve God and wealth. For this reason I say to you, do not be worried about your life, as to what you will eat or what you will drink; nor for your body, as to what you will put on.      Is not life more than food, and the body more than clothing. . . . Do not worry then, saying, ‘what will we eat?’ or "What will we drink?’ or ‘What will we wear         for clothing?’ For the Gentiles eagerly seek all these things; for your heavenly Father knows you need all these things. But seek first His kingdom and His righteousness, and all these things will be added to you. So do not worry about tomorrow; for tomorrow will care for itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own."
Step Twelve – Experiencing a Changed Life in Christ. Carrying a Message that demonstrates the fruits of Obeying God’s Will. And Practicing an obedient life founded on God’s Word and perfected by acting on Christ’s teachings of love and service.

The Awakening
Matthew 7:13-14, 18-21, 24-25 (The wise man experiences the fruitful life—based on hearing Christ’s words and acting in obedience to God’s will; for that man’s life is founded on the "Rock" – from the Sermon on the Mount):
          "Enter through the narrow gate; for the gate is wide and the way is broad that leads to destruction, and there are many who enter through it. For the gate is small and the way is narrow that leads to life, and there are few who find it.       
          "A good tree cannot produce bad fruit, nor can a bad tree produce good fruit. Every tree that does not bear good fruit is cut down and thrown into the fire. So then, you will know them by their fruits.
        "Therefore everyone who hears these words of Mine and acts on them, may be compared to a wise man who built his house on the rock. And the rain fell, and the floods came, and the winds blew and slammed against that house; and yet it did not fall, for it had been founded on a rock."
              [2 Corinthians 5:17 was one of the most frequently quoted verses by pioneer AAs and was intended to describe the end result of the conversion process:
                    "Therefore if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creature; the old things passed away; behold, new things have come."]
The Witness
James 1:26-27 (Describing the real witness of one who is "doing" the word):
          "If anyone thinks himself to be religious, and yet does not bridle his tongue but deceives his own heart, this man’s religion is worthless. Pure and undefiled religion in the sight of our God and Father is this: to visit orphans and widows in their distress, and to keep oneself unstained by the world."
James 2:15-17 (An illustration of "giving it away to keep it"):
          "If a brother or sister is without clothing and in need of daily food, and one of you says to them, ‘Go in peace, be warmed and be filled,’ and yet you do not give them what is necessary for their body, what use is that? Even so faith, if it has no works, is dead, being by itself."
Fellowship with God and Other Believers
1 Corinthians 13:3-6 (Practicing the principles in love and service):
        "And if I give all my possessions to feed the poor, and if I surrender my body to be burned, but do not have love, it profits me nothing. Love is patient, love is kind and is not jealous; love does not brag and is not arrogant, does not act unbecomingly; it does not seek its own, is not provoked, does not take into account a wrong suffered, does not rejoice in unrighteousness, but rejoices with the truth."
              Other "principles" from the Bible that are mentioned throughout Early AA Literature:
            The "Ten Commandments" (See Exodus 20:3-17; Deuteronomy 5:7-21)
                The two "Great" Commandments as taught by Jesus (See Matthew 22:36-40)
                The "Beatitudes" taught by Jesus in his "Sermon on the Mount" (See Matthew 5:3-12—Dr. Bob’s wife, Anne Ripley Smith, recorded in her journal and shared with AAs and their families that these beatitudes were Christian virtues to be cultivated. For example, see "Blessed are the pure in heart, for they shall see God" – Matthew 5:8; and "Blessed are the peacemakers, for they shall be called the sons of God" – Matthew 5:9) 
                The "Four Absolutes" – Absolute Honesty, Absolute Purity, Absolute Unselfishness, Absolute Love -  extracted from the teachings of Jesus, by Dr. Robert E. Speer; published in his title: The Principles of Jesus; and adopted as the four "standards" of the Oxford Group and the four "yardsticks" for measuring moral behavior in early AA.
There are many other verses which impacted on A.A. and which are covered in my titlesThe Good Book and The Big Book (http://www.dickb.com/goodbook.shtml); The Oxford Group and Alcoholics Anonymous (http://www.dickb.com/Oxford.shtml);
New Light on Alcoholism (http://www.dickb.com/newlight.shtml);
Good Morning: Quiet Time, Morning Watch, Meditation, and Early A.A.(http://www.dickb.com/goodmorn.shtml); and
Turning Point: A History of Early A.A.s Spiritual Roots and Successes(http://www.dickb.com/turning.shtml).
In addition to the specific verses mentioned in the foregoing titles in connection with A.A. itself, there certainly are the four sets of verses which Dr. Robert E. Speer believed were representative of the absolute moral standards and teachings of Jesus Christ.
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Friday, October 22, 2010

True Tolerance

Finally, we begin to see that all people, including ourselves, are to some extent emotionally ill as well as frequently wrong, and then we approach true tolerance and see what real love for our fellows actually means. TWELVE STEPS AND TWELVE TRADITIONS, p. 92
The thought occurred to me that all people are emotionally ill to some extent. How could we not be? Who among us is spiritually perfect? Who among us is physically perfect? How could any of us be emotionally perfect? Therefore, what else are we to do but bear with one another and treat each other as we would be treated in similar circumstances? That is what love really is.
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Matthew 7:12 "In everything, treat others as you would want them to treat you" 

"If any one of you is without sin, let him be the first to throw a stone"  John 8:7

Sunday, October 17, 2010

God made each of us unique

God made each of us unique
You were designed for success and God has a special and unique purpose for each one of us! We have been wired to be creative. Did you know that you do not have to be a prisoner of your past?   Put your past behind you. Our willingness to forgive is the key to our new future.  We must be able to forgive ourselves and others. Until we are able to forgive, we will remain a prisoner of our past. This key of willingness unlocks us from the binds of our past and frees us to move on to what God has planned for us. This also means that me and my 12 Step friends must continually work our steps to conquer our character defects and walk through our resentments and fears across the bridge of faith to God’s Promises.
I challenge you this week to look inside yourself and see what is holding you back!
2 Corinthians 5:17 “Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation; the old has gone, the new has come!”
Isaiah 43:18 "Forget the former things; do not dwell on the past.”
Big Book pg 84 This thought brings us to Step Ten, which suggests we continue to take personal inventory and continue to set right any new mistakes as we go along. We vigorously commenced this way of living as we cleaned up the past. We have entered the world of the Spirit. Our next function is to grow in understanding and effectiveness. This is not an overnight matter. It should continue for our lifetime. Continue to watch for selfishness, dishonesty, resentment, and fear. When these crop up, we ask God at once to remove them. We discuss them with someone immediately and make amends quickly if we have harmed anyone. Then we resolutely turn our thoughts to someone we can help. Love and tolerance of others is our code.

Thursday, October 14, 2010

Starting my day

“On awakening let us think about the twenty-four hours ahead. We consider our plans for the day. Before we begin, we ask God to direct our thinking, especially asking that it be divorced from self-pity, dishonest or self-seeking motives.”  Big Book of Alcoholics Anonymous Page 86

“Show me Your ways, O Lord, teach me Your paths; guide me in Your truth and teach me, for You are God my Savior, and my hope is in You all day long.” (Psalm 25:4 & 5)

Sunday, October 10, 2010

Guard Your Heart



Proverbs 4:23 “Above all else, guard your heart, for it is the
wellspring of life.”
 
The heart is often spoken of in God's Word as our innermost being.
 
Our heart is so much more that just our affections as some think.
 It is regarded as being the seat of the intellect, home of our soul, housing our feelings, and marshalling our will.

If you agree with this thinking like I do, then our heart is the starting point of the activities of life; it determines the course of life. Our heart guides and directs all that we do. Every word that comes out of our mouth starts in the heart. All of our actions, behaviors, and choices are driven by the desires of the heart.
 
The proverb gives us a profound truth. The condition of our heart
(our emotions, our will, our mind) affects everything.

We would like to think that science is unbiased, that reporting is fair       minded, or that economics is neutral. But we quickly find that all fields of   knowledge have lenses that they assume to be true.  Even Chuck C. in    AA talked about his “New Pair of Glasses”! That is why the Scripture was given to us as the lens to see the world. 
Otherwise, other lenses are there to color our heart and  taint the water  that comes out of our    life. Which lens are you looking through today?
 Are you guarding your heart?
 
Proverbs 4:23 “Above all else, guard your heart, for it is the
wellspring of life.”
  
“One feels that something more than human power is needed to produce the essential psychic change.” AA Big Book, THE DOCTOR'S OPINION  xxvii
 
“They flatly declare that since they have come to believe in a Power      greater than themselves, to take a certain attitude toward that Power, and to do certain simple things. There has been a revolutionary change in their way of living and thinking.”  AA Big Book Page 50

Monday, October 4, 2010

Looking at our past can help us move forward

Looking at our past can help us move forward

 You may or may not experience this, but I find this common in my life. I keep doing the same things over and over again…EXPECTING different results that never come!  I had to learn to objectively look at my past for understanding and closure. This helps me to stop repeating the same actions and behaviors that bring me frustration. Pastor Allan is teaching an exciting series at our church.  He also suggested that we need to look at our past to learn and heal.

 Pastor Allan shared 4 key points about our human nature. The first is that we are all wounded in some way or fashion. This means that we are carrying a burden or a hurt around with us from our past that we can’t seem to let go of and it influences our actions, thoughts, and behaviors. In short, our perception of our past influences who we are today and how we interact with others.  Think about this for a moment, we allow moments from our past to shape our future! I like to share that we don’t need to turn a bad moment into a bad day, but there are moments from our past that still influence us negatively to this very day.  

Pastor Allan’s next key point is that all wounds are connected to lies.  I used to cling to my perceived false fact that I was a loser who could never amount to anything.  Belief in this lie and others that stemmed from it took me to some dark and scary places and caused me to make some poor choices. Not even the consequences of these choices could get my attention long enough to help me to look at my negative behaviors and actions and question the motivation behind them.  My friend Brian C. taught me that I cannot fix the head I got with the head I got. Believing these lies shaped my future and had me on a path of destruction. 

How is your head today? Are there a few false truths in your head from the past that you cling to? Are you relying on the head you got to fix the head you got?  There is a solution I promise!

Pastor Allan shared a solution. All lies need freedom.  If we don’t get free from the lies, they will continue to embrace our thoughts and influence our actions and behaviors.  Until we free ourselves from the lies, they will control our entire lives. Those of you who know me are aware of my struggles with alcoholism and addiction.  Through the grace of God and AA I have been clean and sober almost 19 years now.  When I took them up on their offer and  allowed the wonderful staff at the Salvation Army in Sacramento to love me until I could love myself back in 1991 and 1992, I began to experience God’s grace and could finally look at and deal with the lies that I had allowed to influence and control my life so negatively. Lies are all around us. There are the lies of addiction that once embraced me that I am know free from, based on my participation in a daily maintenance program of my spiritual condition. (Big Book page 85)  There are lies that are still holding me down. My friends and family are watching me struggle to control my weight issues, but I am making ground and winning this one finally! There are also some lies that I am not even aware of…yet, but my picket fence of friends helps me to get outside of my own head and look at my actions and behaviors.

Pastor Allan’s 4th and last point of this talk suggests and my life is a good verification of this that all freedom comes from Christ.  I need God in my life. God brought me to the Salvation Army to heal and He showed me that AA’s spiritual principles and Steps could help me walk across the bridge of faith to rediscover freedom through Him.

Friends, I need you to ask yourself, Are you free from the lies of your past? Please check your own experience with this. I thank God daily for my freedom!

John 8:32 Then you will know the truth, and the truth will set you free."

"We needed to ask ourselves but one short question. 'Do I now
believe, or am I even willing to believe, that there is a Power
greater than myself?' As soon as a man can say that he does believe,
or is willing to believe, we emphatically assure him that he is on
his way. It has been repeatedly proven among us that upon this
simple cornerstone a wonderfully effective spiritual structure can be
built." Alcoholics Anonymous, We Agnostics, pg. 47